Wednesday, September 30, 2009

Jill Taylor and More for the Impact Women


Another layer of treatment at Impact that I've never spoken about includes special events and some "perks" that we are able to give clients because of the kindness of our donors.

I'll start by talking about the Jill Taylor Fund. It was founded by the family of Jill Taylor, an accomplished and beautiful young woman whom we came to know when she came through Impact as a client. She remained in the Pasadena community after her treatment. She was a beloved sister, daughter and friend to many men and women, and she was an attorney. Her heart's dream was to shake off this disease and live a life in recovery. Sadly, it didn't work out this way. Her family believed that it would have pleased Jill to help women new to recovery who were in less fortunate circumstances than she with their basic needs.

This year alone her fund has done phenomenal work. Imagine going out and looking for work without teeth. As an old sponsor once said, "My sponor told me to go get a job, and I told him I look horrible. He told me 'Then go get a horrible job!'" Well, The Fund provided for two of our women to get new teeth! Both of these women are now employed and clean for more than one year.

We have gotten new glasses for two women. Optical care is another health care issue that is nearly impossible (like dental) to have taken care of unless you have cash money. It is not covered for the poor or indigent.

We have provided our women with clothing that we can't provide through the usual channels: a properly fitting bra, the right size shoes, new socks; XXL sizes; work clothes for women who get jobs requiring specific uniform clothes.

The Jill Taylor Fund has afforded us the luxury of helping women in ways we never could before. It's a wonderful thing. In total, just this year we have spent $9,377.95 from this fund and we want to acknowledge the Taylor family and friends who have provided for this amazing gift to our women.

In August, we took all of the women to the Huntington Museum in San Marino. Have you ever been there? The last Thursday of the month is free to the public, look it up on the website and go. It is breathtaking.

Treatment is not just meetings and writing and counseling. It is a whole mind, body and soul kind of thing. Everyone needs a lot of beauty, serenity, spirituality. At least that's how I see it. And those are things you will find at the Huntington.

So we loaded up the vans, poured through the gates and told everyone where to meet at 4 p.m. I simply suggested that they don't miss the art museum, the Japanese Gardens or the lily ponds. But that they were free to explore on their own. Gale and I spent a great deal of time inside the museums because it was much cooler than the 100 plus degrees outside, and the Frank Lloyd Wright furniture exibit is irresistable to me, then we spent ages "meditating" on the scene above the Japanese Gardens. Throughout, we passed the Impact women and they were enjoying everything about it.

I always remember the day we took the House to the Van Gough Exibit at the LA Art Museum and a 40 plus woman from the House told a curator that it was her first visit ever in her life to a museum! That's why we do it.

Wednesday, September 23, 2009

Lot's of Passion, But Cash Always Helps

In 1969 someone, and I'm not naming any names (Bob Barrett) got the idea that addicts could use a place to get clean, learn about Narcotics Anonymous, and start a new life. Period. That it happened to evolve into Impact, a treatment center that has continued to lead the way in addiction treatment ever since then, is the coincidence of the genius and passion of the men and women who came into treatment in those early years, coupled with the extreme need of a community that was and is wrestling with ever-increasing substance addiction problems.

And then in 1973, a small band of passionate men and women entered Impact for treatment who stayed to become the core, the very heart and soul of what we do here. Sadly, only a few remain. One of them is Jim Stillwell, our Executive Director, a man who could have run any of America's top corporations. Watch him today as he handles the mostly bad news of California's economy, a downward sliding affair that very directly affects Impact's income, our ability to treat men and women who daily place desperate calls to us for help. Jim doesn't give up, he doesn't punish the indigent as our politicians do, he makes solutions. Another of our leaders stemming from 1973 is Debi Stillwell (yes, they met here) who is the Human Resources Coordinator. Impact has won awards for its leadership in Human Resources. I'll tell you more about her later.

But what I wanted to talk about really, was the 40th Birthday. Impact was a Grassroots operation. When it was founded by Bob Barrett and another clean addict and a woman who had only recently lost her son to an overdose, they funded the first location by having a dance. They made a couple of hundred dollars. Thy used the money to rent a house in Sun Valley and brought in a few addicts to detox and get clean and go to NA meetings and that is how it started. There were no other programs to imitate. There were no rules. It was a work in progress, and what a work it became.

Who woulda thunk it? So 40 years later. I sent out a letter and asked people for a gift of $40 for 40 years, and we got $7,300! Pretty nice, isn't it? I want to thank all of those people for their gifts. Some people sent in $15. Some sent in $1,000. People do what they can. And we are grateful.

And just so you know, we currently have eight clients who are in treatment who are here for free. No cash, no insurance, no federal, state, county contracts. That is why we are always asking for money. That is how you can help.